I think I've began to emotionally shut down. It's really hard ro express how I feel, especially to specific people.
Yesterday, i wanted to tell this girl how i cared about her and stuff but down in my gut i thought I'd better just keep it to myself. Including every other time we hang out. I dont want to make things weird. But each time i dont i feel like i die a little each time inside
What should i do? How do i fix this?
- Yes, keep that shit to yourself...4% (1)33% (4)14% (5)Vote
- No, express how you feel83% (20)50% (6)72% (26)Vote
- Lol feelings are stupid13% (3)17% (2)14% (5)Vote
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None of your answers are right.
They are legitimate. (Your feelings)
Keeping them to yourself is wrong.
Expressing them is also wrong.
But feelings are legitimate.
If you like her as a friend but more than as just a friend, you have before you potentially a life-long partner!
Don't let her know that she's as valuable as a sexual partner. Get her interested in you as a sex partner. Use any technique, regardless of moral compunction, to increase demand for yourself.
Play your game hard. Do what must be done to get you either sex or opportunity for real intimacy.1