I have a very soft and gentle personality and vibe. Some of my female friends are tougher and more respected by men. They tell me that men can pick up on my soft nature and therefore don't respect me as much. But how do I become tough?
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't lose respect for someone simply because they have a gentle and nice personality. I think you're fine the way you are... besides it's a lot harder going through life not being yourself.1
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm... I don't think you can become more tough. Don't listen to your friends! Why would u be friends with guys that pick u.2