so i have always had an idea about it, but i jsut got tagged in a post on tumblr which goes like this "She has beauti, she has grace, she has a resting bitch face".
I have heard it before, and i kinda knew it but didn't want to admit it a guess. but apprantly i have a resting bitch face.
Im not perfect by any means, but i think i make it a bit difficult for myself that i have a resting bitch face and that im not overly good at sharing emotions... i dont want to seems arrogant or anything, but could that be one of the reasons i dont get approach as much? People find me attractive, but i just look extremly unapproachable because of my bitch face?
Most Helpful Guy
I would say that could be a reason why people don't approach, maybe. Most of the time I look angry or like I don't want and it doesn't help that I don't always sound friendly, even when I mean to be and have a sarcastic sense of humor.
You definitely can still look attractive, but people assume your in a bad mood all the time so they don't approach, you could try smiling more if it bothers you, or just smile at guys that you want to approach you.0
Most Helpful Girl
A resting what what? Never heard of that phrase before. Guessing from your description that it means a girl who looks bitchy and arrogant.
Studies show that good looking people are unfairly perceived to be good on the inside too. This is the first time I am hearing of a case where the person is beautiful but perceived to be ugly on the inside (on first impression.) That is very unfortunate and I'm sorry to hear that.
Why is it that you are not good with communicating emotions? This is often the case with people who have faced some sort of trauma in their impressionable years... They build a wall around them, that prevents people from getting in. It's a Defence mechanism to avoid getting hurt again. Try to identify why this has happened to you. Just realising the cause and coming to terms with it can help bring down those walls...
Besides that, I also think that people at your age, can be rather brutal and unkind... Judging people superficially and rejecting and ridiculing anyone who does not conform with their idea of the norm... Believe me that things will get better as you grow older... people around you will be more mature, and empathetic, and then some might see through the facade you put on to the real you.0