Is shaking a girls hand when you first meet her the worst thing ever?

it screams friendzone to me

so what's a better thing to do?

shake her hand
hi five
hug her although she might not want to
or should you just grab that ass


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Shaking hands does not mean "friendzone"...

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    • then why do they act like they've done a handshake with a guy?

      most guys just putntheir arm around them

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    • everything is so different in the real world

    • Yes i agree.

Most Helpful Guy

  • No... Like every girl I meet including dates I shake hands. It's a timeless gentlemanly gesture. 😎

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    • Shake in a sensual way tho. Not vice grip like you would at a business meeting.

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    • yea I'm in America, but I don't know dude it's like they're not used to a guy being polite or introducing himself..

    • I don't know what to say man BC that's not been my experience in several different states

What Girls Said 7

  • I don't think so. I think its super attractive.

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    • why tf do they act surprised then?

    • no not really. I am an odd girl I guess. LOL but It shows me that he respect me and i like that.

  • Not at all lol though usually I just say hello to a new guy lol

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    • so basically what you're saying is... I should shake her hand after I say "hi nice to meet you"?

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    • yea and she was like "oh hey... haha" and weirdly shook my hand

      I don't know wtf to do anymore

    • Well just talk to her normally lol she probably thought it was cute haha

  • Grabbing her might mean a law suit. I suggest hand shake first.

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  • It screams gentleman. I don't know about other ladies but I personally wouldn't want anyone all up in my personal bubble the moment we meet. The hug kind of makes it official in a way before anything has even started.

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    • being a gentlemen must be are then because I'm polite and do this but get weird looks or surprised looks

      I don't know wtf to do anymore

  • DO NOT just grab her ass.
    shaking her hand is not the worst thing ever. walking away without doing anything is the worst ever

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  • it's fine, it's a professional way to greet someone you have just met.

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  • With me just grab my ass lol it will only be awkward for a few days

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What Guys Said 3

  • It's called being polite. Not friendzoned.

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    • Being polite is rare then because they act like a guy never shook their hand

      that's why I'm asking

  • I always go for a hug, arm around shoulder unless I know she is into me, them I go for arm around waist!

    A handshake is so... platonic. :-/

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  • Well I do that all the time to woman

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