I am a closeted bisexual and regularly have sexual relations with other men behind my girlfriend of 6 years back. Wbu?
Do you keep any secrets from your partner?
What Girls Said 15
Wow that must be a tough secret honestly you're not being honest with her or yourself, a secret shouldn't have to hurt someone or put your relationship in jeopardy but thats none of my business. I don't think I intentionally keep secrets from my partner and I've been pretty honest with him, I share what I want to share- just because he's my boyfriend doesn't mean I'm inclined to tell him everything.0
no i wouldn't keep anything a secret.1
So basically what you're saying is you're cheating.2
I'm a pretty honest person. I don't like to lie, I just could lie to people I don't give a fuck about. What you're doing is just wrong. I hope your girl find out. It's not the cheating that is wrong, it's also the fact that you can put her health at risk, as anal is the act at higher chances of STD.1
nah its not a good thing to do0
I wouldn't keep a secret from my partner. The base of a relationship is trust and loyalty.0
he doesn't know i'm on GaG and that i like wearing short skirts when he's not around
other than that, nothing major0
What Guys Said 9
Several people have stated that what you are doing is cheating, having an affair. Somehow you believe that you are not having an affair or cheating. That is living in denial. If you are having sexual relations with others without your partner's knowledge, that is cheating.
No idea what you mean by FBW. that is used to mean a lot of things from Fighter Bomber Wing to Free Battered Women. But regardless of your meaning, they are two constant guys with you and those are affairs.
You show absolutely no respect fro the girl you call your girlfriend. (Another bad definition on your part.)
Also, gay sex is much more likely to get you an STD that you will then pass to her, who is ignorant of what a cheating slut you are and what you will eventually give to her. And don't give us the "It hasn't happened in 4 plus years" speech. the law of averages will soon catch up with you.
Not giving you advice (you would obviously ignore anything logical told to you) Just pointing out that the arguments you have had with several people are wrong (thinking you are not really cheating) and that you are putting her at risk of an STD she certainly does not deserve.
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WOW I would never keep something like that a secret... damn.. I'm kind of an open book for the person I'm in a relationship with. I really don't have secrets. If my potential girlfriend wanted to know about something all she'd have to do is ask. I guess the only thing that could be a secret is the fact that I tend to dwell on things and bottle shit up instead of talk about it.
Really that's as 'bad' as my secrets get lol1
No I'd never keep secrets from them but there are also things I have no intention on sharing such as things from my past. As they aren't things I do not enjoy discussing and have no reverence on what is going on now.0
If you are cheating on your girlfriend that is wrong man. Especially if you aren't using protection you could give her an std.1
Secrets are exhausting and childish.1
I'm single, but I did keep one secret from my ex.0
YES !! To begin with, ain't telling her I'm on GAG. My life and my butt are sacred !!0
That's disgusting and shitty0
How is this not cheating lol?0
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