If you talk frequently to someone and then you don't hear much from them, how do you feel? What goes through your mind? What could be the reason behind not communicating anymore or as much?
What do you think when someone stops talking to you randomly?
What Guys Said 25
Many things just plain busy with their own life to not interested any more.2
I think zombies must've got 'em.2
Lol that happens a lot to me. I just think they got bored and annoyed, its my fault anyway so I dont feel bad. its understandable.1
I don't think about it. It's expected.1
I take a hint and assume they want me to fuck off.1
I just think they don't like me enough to want to talk to me.1
It could be a lot of things. Hard to pin point1
From my personal experience and being fricken busy all the time. Its just cuz we are busy. I hate it ignoring people but i have to do it to get work done. I feel really bad when i haven't talked to them either in a long time. How about you asker how do you feel when someone does this to you?0
like they found a new interest. someone more interesting than me1
What Girls Said 13
They're probably busy with life stuff. Or they've been compromised and had to hide in a safe house or something. Or they lost interest in me. In any case, I'd just let them be; don't wanna impose on them or anything.
Sometimes it gives me a ping or something, but that might also be hunger.1
hm... they had something to do!1
I think they're busy.
If it goes on long enough, and they never explain their absence, I think they just grew disinterested. It's a little hurtful, but I get it.1
That I did something wrong, and I get kinda annoyed. I'll be the first to admit I'm not very good at being a friend but I try, so it annoys me when someone doesn't tell me when I do wrong.
how am I supposed to fix the problem when I don't know there is one, y'know?2
They're busy or don't have time to keep in touch right now. Or they don't like me and I said something wrong1
I would think they heard a rumor about me that was bad. Or they're going through a crisis1
I'd be like "Wtf? You're acting brand new. Damn, I guess I was wrong. I mean whatever bruh." Then just keep thinking of the numerous reasons for her/him to not talk to me.1
a lot of things honestly, this has actually been happening to me lately and it sucks.
at first i dismissed it as the person was busy, which is totally fine, obviously. but then when we would go days and weeks without texting it got weird, i kept thinking things among the lines of "am i annoying" "does he not like me anymore"
it really sucks, i wish people would just be upfront about shit, whether they are busy or uninterested.1