there's a lot of attractive girls I see at college but I don't like any of them
and then when I do see a girl I like I ignore her (wtf is wrong with me) and dont bother talking to her even though I want to
im tired of this why do I do this and what can I do to stop it?
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It is less painful to ignore them and carry even the false belief that you have a chance with them rather than to approach them and be faced with the painful reality that you don't.
You must let go of the false narrative that your world will end if you're ever rejected by someone you admire. Life just isn't quite that harsh.0