He's never said any thing to me about it but all the signs are there. Being molested as a child myself I know how shameful it makes you feel. How do I try to help him without coming right out with my accusations? Does he remember or are the memories blocked away like the brain tends to do with traumatic events?
Most Helpful Guy
You don't do that, no. Unless you have some form of absolute proof you keep these kinds of suspicions to yourself, and even then you question them, because it may not be as you see.0
Most Helpful Girl
What do you mean by all the signs are there? I think different people cope with that kind of trauma in different ways so it's very possibly you're misinterpreting.0