so this happened more then a year ago, but it makes me feel like absolut shit and it makes me hate myself a little.
So i was at this club just minding my own business when this guy that walked towards me grabed my boobs.. and the only thing i did was yell at him basically... but i should have kicked him so har in the balls that i crushed them...
I hate myself not not doing that... how can i get over this? i just wish i was better and stading up for myself... why am i suh a wuss?
Most Helpful Guy
If you would have kicked him in the balls then you would have deserved to go to jail and get hit back as kicking a guy in genitals is a serious issue, you can easily put him in a hospital and make him lose the ability to have kids. I believe that girls who think kicking guys in such a lighthearted manner weren't raised wrong and need to be taught a lesson so it's good that you only yelled. Although you could have slapped him as well. Kicking him in the genitals would cross the line.1
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Most Helpful Girl
the wuss types would beat themselves up
when it's the entitled asses that haven't been beat up enough to suffer consequences
what this was... was a wake up call... this time you weren't raped, gang fondled, life threatened
consider driving training (automobiles) ... didn't they teach you that near-miss accidents are the yellow light? .. . that these warn you that you are not looking out for potential accidents and not driving defensively enough?
same thing at that club incident
now you will be more aware and sensitive to guys, what they are doing, looking, talking about and their mannerisms
but you must also be prepared for the next event, hopefully it won't happen
for being aware, then avoiding the next event can't always be enough
PREPARATIONS begin at your local self-defense store &/or training outlets:
-tae kwon do
-purse guns... for dark parking lots
-pens that serve as knives
I think you get it, many others to suit your taste and dress
Further, I don't read you talking to management and involving their bouncer.
If they don't have one, willing to use him in your protection, then either avoid such places or bring your own. Also tell them you were the scout for a lot a pretty gals considering this place as "home", so long as jerks like that don't frequent the place.0