My program in school is difficult and it requires a lot of studying. A girl that i know called me a loser at life cause i don't party or get drunk. She went to a party tonight and even told me she was going to get "wasted". she invited me but i told her i wanted to study. Then she was like "have fun loser".
:( does my life really suck?
Most Helpful Girl
Oh god no. It is completely fine to not party or get drunk. There is nothing wrong with that. You are being safe and healthy.1
Most Helpful Guy
No, I know too many girls who have experienced anything "uninhibited" like sex or eventually. any kind of fun only when loaded. They were pretty good while loaded, willing to try things that were off the beaten track. Many of them developed drinking/drug problems that forced them to get clean either in AA or elsewhere. If they only had sex when drunk, they are very tentative or uninterested w/o alcohol.
If you've only had sex while loaded, that is all you know and when you remove alcohol you also remove crutch necessary for behavior when loaded.0