i have problems accepting things for how they are. I just feel like guys only want to use women when it comes to sex. Yeah, i know that sex is a primaly instinct. yeah, i know we are ment to reproduce and yes, i do know that guys can't help how they are when it comes to wanting sex.
I know alle of these things, but it still pisses me off and im always on guard. Im almost scared of having sex because im so afraid of getting used and doing what guys "want me for, or want me to do". And i have always been that girl that didn't like things beause it was mainstream.. so when the mainstream is "guys only date you for sex" i automatically get turned off, and i get annoyed and sometimes repulsived by guys way of thinking.
Disclaimer: im not stating this as a fact, i know there is something wrong with ME. Some guys are assholes for sure, but a lot of gusy are sweet guys who can't help how they were made. AND this is NOT, and repeat NOT a thread for bashing women, if you want to do that make your own question.
anyway the reason for this post, i want advice on how to relax about things i obviously can't control. So any advice from some insightful people?