I have a very close friend (we live in different states) whom I talk/keep in touch with over kik every day. The last I heard from him was Thursday (12/10) at 3am. I kiked him at 9am Thur and the text was read but he hasn't responded. I kiked him again at 4pm yesterday but the message has been delivered but not read.
The first thing that came to my mind was that he might've blocked me, although honestly, it doesn't make sense for him to suddenly do that because our text exchanges up to the last ones have all been pleasant. We were even joking around and laughing.
The last time I saw him in person was last weekend (Dec 4-5) when I flew to visit him for his birthday and spent the weekend together. Everything about that was amazing and we even said we'll talk over kik when I get back and see when we'll be able to meet up again.
I'm more leaning towards him being unavailable or super busy but as time passes by (it's been over 24 hours since I last heard from him), I'm getting increasingly concerned if he's alright (or even alive!). It's unusual for me to totally not hear from him suddenly for extended periods of times like that. Because of this, I'm considering hiring a PI to search for him so I know where he is, if he's alright/alive and other means of contacting him.
Do you think this is a good idea?
I'm in a very anxious state of mind right now and so my judgment is clouded :( Any input/advice would be greatly appreciated!
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24 hours. Lol give it more time. I think you might be overreacting. The fact that he read your first message and didn't reply might mean he's busy. And the fact that he didn't read your recent message could mean so many different things. He obviously seems busy, and if he finds out you hired a PI for it will throw him off.
I understand that you're upset and worried, honestly I would be too. But patience is the best. Don't invest so much time and energy in one person, you should not be in a very anxious state. Breathe. Its gonna be okay :)1