And does it ever work against you?
Most Helpful Girl
absolutely. it's a gift and a curse.1
Most Helpful Guy
A bit like the others I do but the important thing is to know which is reality and which is not so along as you have a clear idea of this you should be fine. The second thing is don't retreat into it to much to create a preferred state for yourself - Work on where you are right now to make it the most positive place for yourself possible.1