Out the the two?
- The love of your life marrying someone elseVote A
- The love of your life dyingVote B
Most Helpful Guy
Death beats everything of course.1
Most Helpful Girl
Dying because death is so final. If they meet someone else you can cling to the hope that you'll get back together again. Or at least remain friends. It's possibly they can be part of your life again. Of they die you know for a certainty you'll never be able to hold them, see them or spend quality time with them again
I think if someone leaves you for someone else you feel the rejection that people don't feel when a loved one dies. I think in general it's easier to accept deaths than rejection, because death is inevitable... they didn't leave by choice.
I do think someone dying is more painful than them leaving you for someone else though1