She was at a party with her neighbors night before last and her long time friend was behind her and grabbed one of her boobs. I know that's not as bad as many molestation stories but now she feels filthy and disgusting and doesn't want anyone near her or to touch her. Please help me and my girlfriend out!
What can I do or she do to make her feel "clean" again?
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I've been seriously molested and completely taken advantage of. That kind of thing will scar anyone. Movements and memories will make them feel that way and disgusting. Does me. But anyway tell her you wouldn't ever let that happen to her ever again when you are around. Show her you will protect her and keep her safe. Give her space at the moment. Make sure to ask her before you even kiss her to make sure she is okay. Tell her you would never touch her in a way she didn't want.0