Can guys and girls be friends? Without having some afterthought like sexual things?


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  • No. There's always one that has some type of feelings.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I can't speak for other people, but I can speak for myself. So, I do believe it's possible for a guy and a girl to be friends without being sexually attracted to each other.
    One of my best friends was a guy and we didn't have feelings for each other, nor we were sexually attracted to each other.

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What Guys Said 9

  • No I don't think so

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  • I think so, yes. It's especially feasible if neither friend finds the other attractive.

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  • If one of them is gay, if both of them are gay or if one or both of them has a significant other. But of course they be just friends even if they aren't the things listed.

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  • Yes they can
    Entirely possible
    Got female friends, they're awesome :)

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  • Yes, it is possible.

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  • If she's hot, nah

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  • I can be friends with women without anything like that. I'm assuming that's true for most men.

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  • its very possible for guys and girls to just be friends.

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  • I tried, didn't work. she was a friend first but i could see see us together.

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What Girls Said 8

  • Yes and no.
    I am unable to have male friends very often because ALL of them end up with crushes on me... Not just flings either.
    Like years.
    I know of 4 guys that have had a crush on me for 3+ years even when I have a bf!
    But I have 1 guy that is my friend that doesn't have a crush on me yayayay x3
    So yes, its "possible" but is it probable? ... No.

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  • no... Are you insane! Thats impossible!

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  • They definitely can.

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  • I think they can. ^-^

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  • Only a lesbian and a gay guy

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  • I mean. I'd eventually ponder the idea of sex with the person. But most of the time I'm not sexually attracted to the person so I am like "ewwwww no" and then I try not to think about it

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  • Of course they can. I only entertain romantic thoughts about 1-2% of all the guys I talk to. The rest are just friends.

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    • Maybe they have some afterthought... well I don't know it's a mystery

  • no way. as soon as there is sexual thoughts your done

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