This is nothing new, I've been dealing with this my whole life. Growing up, I never loved myself, never felt attractive inside and out, nor had any type of confidence at all in myself and it's not like I've been bullied by anyone or talked down to or anything of that matter but I never believed when anyone told me how smart, beautiful or special I was I just nevet felt that way inside. And I feel like people can feel my energy of low-confidence, low-self esteem and no self value whenever I'm around people which I feel is one of the reasons why I come in contact with a lot of rude people and are afraid to speak up for myself or stand up for myself.
I always tend to seek opinions and approval of others on certain things I like and whether or not I should do it.
My main problem when it comes to not having confidence is making friends. I'm very shy when it comes to people, I'm really not good in starting conversations with people and I don't be having anything to say and don't know what to say and I'm very different from a lot of people, I'm not like other people so I don't like a lot of things a lot of people like nowadays so I always feel like I have no one to relate to because I don't have a lot in common with a lot of people. So lack a lot of confidence.
So how can I develope self love and self confidence but with humbleness and not arrogance? Thanks and Merry Christmas.
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I've always said "Sexy people don't have to tell us they're sexy, we already know it."
My advice would be to pretend you're an actor and you're playing the part of a confident, sexy woman. How would she act and what would she do?0