What is one main personality trait you want to work on this upcoming New Year?

I would like to work on my temper.

In real life I am too defensive and ready to fight.

I think this has to do with my past.

I've always been in the positiion where I have had to fight for myself.

I would like to work on being more calm.

I walk away from situations, but I feel as if I should walk away more.
I stand up for myself because in certain situations , If you do not people
will continue to walk over you. I like to nip the problem in the butt before it gets out of control.
Although I do walk away at times, I feel as if lately I've been up to the challenge far too much with people.

Updates:
"ready to fight" ---as in argue. (not throw fists) --to make things clear.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • i want to learn on anxiety over the stupidest of things.

    without a thought i can save a life without thinking of consequences but when it comes to something so simple as to talk to someone i may have any sort of interest in i freeze and its stupid, so that is my top priority...

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What Guys Said 9

  • I will train my mind to be strong in the following ways:

    I will not explain my actions nor my decision making. I did it because I wanted to and because I knew it would please me. That's that.

    I will not apologize for who I am. I am a blunt person and I can be ruthless about it a lot. Don't try to make me feel sorry for being right and tearing the bush to the ground instead of beating around it.

    I will do what I please. If you end up getting seriously injured or torn a new asshole in trying to stop me, that's YOUR fault for being a weakling.

    I will drop my way of thinking revolving around just deserts. If you stand up to me for whatever reason, I will do everything I can to beat you back in your place regardless of if I "deserved" it.

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  • I tend to be too serious. Ima gonna work on it!!

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  • Patience!!!

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  • Figure out what the fuck life's all about

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  • I'm defensive. And I procrastinate.

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  • i'd like to work on being more patient.

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  • not to be a door mat
    not to get annoyed easily
    not to be a sucker

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  • Being more patient and try to not think too much.

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  • Laziness and... aw to heck with it.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Keeping in touch with people, if that counts. I realized it during the holidays, but there's so many friends and family I haven't talked to in a while that I should try to stay connected to.

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  • I want to work on standing my ground. I'm a bit of a pushover.

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  • I have a lot of things I need to work on!
    - I talk to much
    -I throw my problems on people
    -I get really upset and depressed sometimes
    -sometimes I have a panic attack anything could cause it...
    -I don't have my life together! Therefore any person who get to know my depressing side probably runs away!

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  • Negativity
    Being so serious
    Overthinking

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  • i have a bad habit of latching on the past for too long
    this also has to do with my past
    so i would like to learn to get over people more quickly

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  • I need to work on my trust issues. It's preventing me from enjoying great potential relationships/ friendships because I always feel people have an ulterior motive for wanting me in their life. It's bordering on paranoia now 😞

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