Were you ever bullied? If yes, How did you cope up with it and overcame it?
What Guys Said 22
They tried, but it stopped fairly quick
I was different and be on my own a lot so of course I'd be the one getting bullied.
They tried to taunt me by saying things, but I really didn't give a crap about that and they knew so they stopped soon after
Also, I was good at soccer which they liked because during playtime it is class vs class.
And I was a drawer, so them seeing me draw their favorite characters was awesome
Aaaaand important factor: When they were alone, like when I talk to one of them in private, we got along so1
I was bullied from the 4th grade to the 7th grade and always by the same group.. but in the 7th grade when I was bigger, meaner, and a lot tougher then I was in the 4th grade I said to myself.. enough is enough.. so I called out the biggest guy out of the three that always beat me up and caused me grief over and over, I used what ever I could to end his rain of terror.. not only to me but to others they did it to as well.. so one day I called him out to a secluded spot out in the bush at lunch time.. and when he and his two other goon squad members showed up.. I came out from behind a tree and sucker punched them first.. then when there was only him and I left as the other two were lying on the ground.. I picked up a tree branch and beat him senseless with it.. then when he said to stop he had enough.. I did not and said shut the hell up.. I did not stop till he said he would never ever lay a hand on me again.. him or his idiot friends.. then when he agreed to that.. I went back over to his friends and walloped them a few times each with the branch.. telling them what I had said to the king of the wimps and pointed to him.. from that day on.. never again was I bullied at school, and the way that I handled it may or may not work like that for everyone... but it sure did for me... I was just so ticked after all those years that nothing was going to stop me from making it work and sending a huge message to these jerks0
Nope, but I was teased some back when I didn't have any teeth in my mouth 😂😂
But I didn't consider is teasing (or bullying) since we'd all be laughing at each other nor did I give a fuck. So it was all fair game.
And if you meant #Physical bullying HELL FUCKING NAW!!! I ain't no bitch #NotEvenWorriedAboutThat #YouGoneBeatMyAss1stx4.0
Yes, For different reasons going from my looks to how i act. This actually had a big inpact on my life because it made me feel terrible about myself and question a lot of things, Now i am a rather shy/thinking guy.
As for what i did with it, at first i isolated myself which didn't help and made things worse looking back at it. Finally i decided to talk to someone about it which really helped me as he would listen and give advice.0
I planned my revenge. I was always good with computers and I used that to uncover all their dirty little secrets and ruin their lives. Like that popular girl who had an affair with her driving instructor, got pregnant and had an abortion... made sure her very Christian parents and the whole school found out. Suicide was the only way out for her. Or that one rich asshole... turns out his parents weren't paying their taxes. Now he's working a minimum-wage job at some fast food restaurant.
So yeah, the bullying probably fucked me up pretty good, since I'm now a cynical, psychotic asshole... but hey, in some way, I won.0
I had some fights... i almost ended in the dark side...
yeah, my friend and i were bullied in school for 2 years as i remember. We were 8 or 9 years old then, the guy bullying us was also of our age. One day, he was kicking my friend for no reason, i lost my patience and pushed him. He then grabbed my throat but i wasn't afraid at that time... i just slapped him on his face 4-5 times and he withdrew. Then school's security guards came in between and stopped the action. He didn't touch us since that day. And we are friends now.0
I was bullied all throughout my junior schooling, until I got sick of it and broke someone's nose. I was rarely given shit after that.1
When I started high school everybody tried to have a pop at me. Didn't last long though. I picked a fight with the biggest and toughest one and bettered hell out of him in front of everybody. Never got annoyed again. People don't attack strong people they attack weak people. Be a lion in life not a sheep0
Some kid kept pushing me down when j was in fifth grade. One day, I wound up and hit him as hard as I could, right in the nose. He never messed with me again.0
I was, from 2005-2008. I dripped out of high school because of it. I suppose I've never truly recovered, I still have problems meeting new people and trying new things.0
no and if i was, i can just stick up for myself and not be bitchmade.0
Random s/o to my mom for keeping me big since I was born.0
yes. i took martial arts and fought the bully.0
Ooh ooh I know this one I know this one a punched them0
Yes but I it told to nobody. I needed to quit college and recovered from it after a year or so.0
that said, most bullying isn't really that imho.0
What Girls Said 9
I went to a terrible school in the 6th grade. The irony is, to escape the general riff raff, I was in honors or advanced classes, but that is actually where I was bullied. It was a set of 2 girls and 2 boys. They would harass me for being smart (we were all in honors, we were all supposedly supposed to be smart!!!), they would routinely mess with my locker, they would throw things at me, mess with my stuff, start rumors about me. It was relentless and I was miserable. The only saving grace there were my two friends, one a bully herself, but she protected me and my other friend, and the other one was my best and only friend at that school. We were in the same boat so it helped to have someone to talk to. Honestly the only way I overcame it was literally transferring to another school. It was like that year never happened. I had tons more friends, the school was 100% better, they had a zero tolerance policy which they enforced, and school became about school again, and not me trying to deal with bullies, and then trying to learn after that. It really affected me, and made me more aware of people who were being bullied in general and I tried to be a much more supportive friend to those and to try and stop bullying if I saw it happening.0
Just some bullying here and there
At first I told my teacher about my bullies, he told them off (and probably warned them) they came to me apologizing and crying the next day! I was 11, he was one of my favorite teachers ever, unfortunately he drowned in the red sea and he was only in his late 20's💔
ThenbI was bullied in middle school and first year of HS because I was a nerd and chubby. I simply ignored them, didn't give them importance, focused on my studies and worked on myself (I lost weight). If anything they motivated me.0
I am still being bullied. I am not quite sure how to cope with it. On top of bullying, I have very serious family issues. I guess I try to forget about it but everyday something reminds me. I write all of my feelings and my issues into a journal to try to get some of my emotions out.0
Very much for the way I look. Mostly by guys both physical and mental. I have gained some confidence after that and I am not as shy anymore but it definetly has left a mark. I am scared to date because I feel like I am ugly or not good enough and that the guys will just be mean to me and not like me. It has definetly made me very insecure about my looks.0
I was bullied a lot thoughout middle school for being a chubby kid. I didn't deal with it. I was a coward and chose to run away from my problems and to not go to school. That wasn't a good way to deal with things.
To cope, I ate... A LOT. I became more overweight. I also drew pictures and wrote stories.
Fast forward a few years later and I learned from those experiences and how to deal with things in a healthy manner.0
I was bullied many times. I should have seemed help by telling teacher about it. Some kids were successful getting it out by telling their teacher0
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