Am I wrong to feel inadequate when I compare myself to his gf?

So I'm 25, and I like a guy that's 15 years older than me, and he got a girlfriend recently who is reallyyyy successful in her career. But she also has 15 years on me.

Meanwhile I'm just a receptionist.

Is it fair to compare myself to her, even with our age gap?


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What Guys Said 2

  • It's not a good comparison; you still have time to reach your career peak. Besides, men don't care about a woman's career choice. Looks and personality are far more important.

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  • You shouldn't compare yourself to anyone. Don't get into appearances. She could be utterly miserable on the inside

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What Girls Said 1

  • It's not necessarily fair to you because indeed you are also 15 years younger than her, and different people at different ages are at DIFFERENT points in their life! No point in comparing because you're living a life for you at the moment and shouldn't be living through someone else's :)

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