To me, this seemed like the default design of life. People will always grow to take you for granted if they are treated good or properly over time, in the vast majority of the time good things and good actions hardly gets remembered and if it does it often is for all the wrong reasons. If a person get 10 compliments and 1 insult, most will remember the insult and forget the compliments. If you are kind and acceptive you will always become very hated by people who disagree with you, they may label you devil worshipper or something else that is just stupid. While this isent about religion, can just look at the whole Jesus thing too, regardless if you believe in it or not, he was basically crucified cause he was good. Imagine if he never was kind to anyone, he would never been killed. Suffering and pain always travel so much easier than something good. If you are wronged, it always seem so much easier for people to wrong someone back or more in the prossess as "justice" or vengance or by "acting out". All understandable, but sad too. In my opinion, if somebody causes you pain, let the pain stop with you. Dont let it travel, infect and spread like a disease.
But I find it so hard myself everything sometimes, world is pretty unfair no doubt.
Pardon my rant.
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this is a good question, and it's too bad more people don't answer it.
in my life, I've learned to just shut out negativity, wherever it lurks. i don't care how messed up the world becomes, i know there will always be good people with good hearts. goodness will never die out, even if it fades. i thrive on moving away from the norm, being different. if people hate your good nature, then their fucking loss, because the poor things can't comprehend a good nature. feel sorry for them. people stoop so low that a good person almost becomes a foreign species to them.
i love the message you're sending out about pain stopping with you though. it's very refreshing.
as for the jesus thing, for him it wasn't a personal matter. it was a mission that he had to do, regardless of treatment.
you know what's up though. keep it classy, and don't let society change u.1