... When the present has so many reminders of the past? Will I ever stop existing just to be used by guys who can tell I'm broken?
Most Helpful Guy
The past is memories. No more no less. It's what you can remember in your imagination.
The future is only ideas in your mind as well.
The only thing that exists is this moment. This breath you're taking in right now is real. Feel the air moving through your nostrils. Feel your chest rise and fall. Feel the air refresh your body.
Your thoughts belong to you. You can examine them. Work with them. If they aren't improving your life, let them go. They're just thoughts. Don't push them away. Take in a breath. Let the thought attach to the air. Then just let it out. Let it drift away. You don't have to forget. You don't have to relive either.
You have great value and potential. You matter.0
Most Helpful Girl
Firstly I can somewhat relate to this. But you have to realize that YOU have to be the change. Mostly when guys use you there are early warning signs that they might do so. I think you need to stop looking at the past in such a negative way but rather look at it in a positive way and you do that by looking at the lessons you've learnt and what your experiences has taught you. Each experience can have a valuable lesson and it's up to you to make something out of it.0