*I'm 18, had trouble with the settings* I really hate the way she treats me, she showed me a guy when i was around 14 and told me "he's the one you're gonna marry" i said ok cz i thought they'll buy me things and be lovable to me. I'm 18 now and it got worse now, he's a total pervert and a psycho, he touches me with out my permission and talks dirty shit to me. He's a 28 yr old psycho and I'm 18, I indirectly told this freak I'm not interested and always avoided him and he's like he'll die with out me. He harasses me a lot and disrespects me plus he brings trouble to me. I told my mom about this and she said it's all normal and to adjust with him cz he's a rich guy? And also she cursed me a lot of time saying I'm woworthless and it would have been better if i just disappear? She also told me she'll die if i dun marry him cz she want me to marry him and look after them with that psycho's money. He's a girly guy and it makes me sick and disgusted. My mom cursed me saying I'll have a worse future if i dun marry him and live a awful life cz I'm worthless. I wasn't able to concentrate on studies since I was a kid due to this pressure. I've no clue about my future, maybe I'm really worthless to begin with. Should i go out of my house?
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It's quite clear that your mother want you to marry him because he is rich in hopes that some of that wealth will come her way.
I think you need to get away from that toxic environment. Your mother can't control you if you are 18, you are an adult. Assuming that is the legal age also in Switzerland.
You are not worthless. But you mother have probably affected you negatively. If you can get away you will be able to find your way back to yourself and realize that you are valuable.0
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