My mon died of cancer when I was 15 but I hardly ever saw her in the hospital and only went because my dad made me. She was such an overly emotional person (and even more so after her diagnosis) and drove me crazy so I never really cared for her. But worse still she came back and haunted me because apparently she passed the gene that gave her cancer to me so now I spit on her grave.
Most Helpful Girl
Um so that's actually very sad. Listen everyone has problems with their parents especially when your 15 believe me I know. I do and I'm not going into detail because I don't feel comfortable doing so. But if my mom was to get cancer or my father I would be there for them and I would be concerned. I'm not trying to make you feel guilty but don't you think she had the right to be over emotional. I know I would be if I was in a hospital all day knowing that any hour could be my last on top of that my son wasn't around enough. This is very upsetting because I'm going to college to be a musical therapist and the whole point of that job is to go into hospitals to help comfort sick and dying people and I don't know why you didn't find it necessary to go and comfort your mom. I'm sorry your sick but don't you find it would be a lot better for you to have people you love there with you for support? Reguardless of what you think I hope you do have people like that around you.0
Most Helpful Guy
Everyone expresses their grief differently and maybe you'll experience that out of nowhere, but if you didn't have a good relationship with her in the first place, and you feel nothing for her passing whatsoever, then that's on you and not really my problem; you only have them parents once and your kids will likely be the same with your passing.0