STATE ONE GOOD AND ONE BAD
Most Helpful Guy
I had a girlfriend once who lived in New York and I live in Northern Jersey. Public tranzit or by car it takes at least an hour and a half to see her. We got scared that the distance was too much do do anything other than set us up for a lot of pain so we cut the relationship off before we began to really get serious.
In NY they have these things called No ID events, anyone in the high school age group can go to a nightclub for a night and a band plays. Well a few weeks after she went to one and she and some friends went off with some guy who drove half wasted to a party at some house outside of Manhattan. The guy wouldn't help her get home and after a while they guy trying to make out with her was only getting more persistent. and that's when she called me telling me that she needed to get back to NY because she was scared.
I'll never forget leaving my friends house without explaining anything to them and driving as fast as I could to Westchester to go pick her up. Every time I pictured what I might see when I got there, I began to tear up. I could feel her depending on me.
I remember making a big scene when I got there I pulled the E-brake and did a 180 so that we could get out fast and I just left my car in the middle of the street in front of this house with all these people. I just walked in and started pushing people out of my way calling her name until I found her sitting on a couch with this guy who she didn't seem to want to be with. I threw him off, picked him hp and slammed him into a wall.
We ran to my car and sped away until we got to a spot that we could pull over. I turned the light on in my car and the dim light made her eyes glow. We stared into each others eyes for what must have been 20 minutes straight. It took about that long for her little lip to start to tremble. I couldn't hold it in anymore. That moment was the first time I told her I loved her. It was the first time I said it and really whole heatedly had no question in my mind. I remember putting my hand on her face kissed her lightly on the lips and we hugged. I remember almost breaking into tears.2
Most Helpful Girl
The love I have for my man. He's my best friend, love and soul mate. We have a very strong bond, unlike any either of us has ever experienced.
Last year when he was fighting for his life, in and out of the hospital for months with a horrible infection. There was 8 days when he was unconscious. Didn't know if I would ever talk to him again. Finally, I got the phone call I was waiting for. His voice for the first time in 8 days. But, that was just the beginning. The fight was long and hard. The times he almost died in five months. Watching him go through that was the hardest thing I have ever been through, even more so than the death of my parents. I love my parents and that was hard, but this was different. I felt as if I was losing a part of me. But, he thankfully made it through and is still on a very long road of recovery. He lost a lot of strength in his muscles and has a lot of mobility issues now, but he is alive and for that I am thankful.1