I was invited, but my friends keep saying I shouldn't go. What do you think?
Is it okay for a 16 year old girl to go to a college party?
What Guys Said 17
I don't think you should go. You have plenty of time to go to those when you are older.4
I used to go to parties when I was under 16 and drink. College parties in the UK are a bit tame! By the time we reach 18, it's boring to drink because it's legal :p Most college (or uni) parties I've been too were oddly civilised, quiet- it's like they already got all that out of their system when they were 16, 17, 18... They'd get together with friends and watch doctor who and play a quiet drinking game or something and debate life, not really my scene!
If you do go to a party with older people though, just be careful, take a friend or two, don't go on your own obviously and I'm just going to say don't drink at all because I don't want to get into trouble for saying you should! If you do though, just know your limits and don't end up sprawled out on the floor somewhere.1
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I wouldn't recommend it, college guys can be violent idiots.
I'm not making light of this, but mix in lustful people with alcohol or drugs in their systems and it's a setup for bad memories and years of telling Dr. Sphitzer why you cry yourself to sleep every night.0
You shouldn't go0
Okay, yes. Safe, maybe. Dangerous, likely.
Questions like these are always dependent on all the people involved.0
I see roofies in your future. ...0
Better skip it for now.0
You're too young.0
You'll end up getting fucked by a frat dude.0
I dont like wen young girls show up to a party. meant for adults.0
I was 14...0
Ya just be careful0
Just watch out the guys0
Are you on BC?0
What Girls Said 17
I knew a few 16-year-olds who went to college, from my high school.
With one exception, they were pretty reclusive, and clueless about social stuff. That one exception partied HARD.0
If you're going alone, I definitely wouldn't recommend that. You have plenty of time when you're in college to go to those parties anyway.0
Only with her parents permission it's okay.
If she's also not going to allow herself to be negatively influenced,
then I would say it's perfectly fine.
NO Young lady! You stay home with apple and knit!1
Walking or getting the bus late at night, especially on your own is dangerous, so your best choice is getting a lift with a friend who you trust that drives or someone's parents.
However, if you're sneaking out and you have to wait for your parents to go to sleep then you probably won't leave for the party until late, so it would be harder for you to get a ride.
Taxis are good, but can be expensive and as a teen, you should never catch a taxi late at night on your own. Always try to go there with other people.0
Not a good idea. Enjoy your teenage years and stay out of preventable trouble. Lol0
Not a smart idea AT ALL.0
Ha college parties are bad news stay at home0
If your mature enough then go ahead. I've gone to a few college parties in the last couple of months and have had a lot of fun. 😊 just don't let some pervy old guys (like 40 yos) take advantage of you, that's what almost happened to me0
I would think you wouldn't have much in common with others there as you're still in high school.0
It could be dangerous... what are you planning to do?0
No that's like digging up your own grave...0
Umm... No! Sorry, just saying...0
No not even close. Stay home and enjoy being a kid.0
If you want to get roofies dropped in your drink, sure.0