This is something that I see a lot on this site.
If a white guy says he's attracted to black, Asian or hispanic women then people say he has a 'fetish'.
And if a white guy says he's only attracted to white women then (usually the same people) people will say he is racist.
What is with this irony?
Most Helpful Girl
Usually when people say things like that about interracial dating it's out of jealousy anyway. Like with us hispanics, if we have a preference for white guys we are "racist." If a black woman has a preference for white men then she's a "sell-out."
It's just jealousy, really. People who don't mind it won't say anything.3
Most Helpful Guy
Both is really silly. Just because you're only into white people doesn't mean you're racist. It just means you like caucasian girls. And in the same way, it doesn't mean you've got a "fetish" if you're into other ethnicities. For example, I'm mostly into Asian girls. That doesn't mean I have an Asian fetish or something like that. I just means I'm into the Asian-girl look. Some people on this site are just a bit too judgmental or at least too fast in judging people.1