Do you think you are good at ARGUING?

I don't think I am good at going back and forth with someone in a friendly playing around way or a serious way because I never think of things to say. I don't come from a place where arguements happen and I suck at arguing. I not scared to get into a fight though, don't get that twisted. Got any tips?

  • Yes
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  • NO
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  • kinda
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i see not a lot of people argue.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • 1) Practice
    2) think of responses in advance.

    So I used to be really quiet, and sometimes when people pissed me off I would think about it later and think of something funny and be like "why didn't I think of that before?"
    The funny quips that I thought of after the fact, I could use for arguments at a later date. And after collecting some sarcastic one-liners they started coming to me like second nature,

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Most Helpful Guy

  • If you know the topic you are arguing about, and you are confident in your knowledge, then you will be a better arguer. It's best not to argue about things you know little about. And even then sometimes it's not a good idea because the person you are arguing with will just not listen and simply wants to fight for no reason.

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What Girls Said 8

  • Heh. I'm relentless. I'm also very good with words, and very good at finding the right buttons to push.

    I grew up in a household where "conversation" was a competitive blur of quips, barbs and one-liners, exchanged at blindingly fast speed. Ever seen "The Fast Show" on British tv? Six of that, simultaneously, on fast-forward, that was my house.

    When I meet someone who can hang with me in a verbal joust, it's usually a man in his sixties. Don't know what to make of that.

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  • Yes, although I hate arguing.

    I stand up for myself and let the person know I don't play that shit.

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  • I am to an extent

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  • Im awful at arguing and try to avoid it as mich as possible.

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  • Kinda. I try not to argue though.

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  • I'm the queen of arguing 😂

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  • What kind of stupid question is this? *niw it's your turn*

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  • No, everytime me and my boyfriend go into some arguements and he starts talking about real fact, s i can't really answer back, i have to go for plan B, and fake cry lol.

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What Guys Said 6

  • I feel like half my job is arguing with VPs of my company so I'm developing that skill set very quickly I think tbh lol

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  • I am crap at arguing because I refuse to engage.

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  • I used to be. In fact, my sister that I'd make a great lawyer. But I just couldn't wrap myself around studying so much in school. So, I never studied hard in high school. Although, it's not like I enjoy arguing, though.

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  • No, and I don't enjoy it. Arguing is just a waste of time because you won't ever change anyone's mind.

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  • i think "if" i want to, then i am very good at arguing. for me "being good at arguing" is the ability to admit, when your arguments are too weak and another argument is stronger than yours.

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  • Know the facts I guess.

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