How many of you guys use other people to get information from someone?

I find it cowardly. Why not just ask the person themselves?

  • I do
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  • i don't
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And you are? I'm a GirlI'm a Guy

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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's called intelligence gathering and no I don't do it.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • i totally agree. this is how i got with my second guy actually. people kept telling me "omg him? why him?" he's this and that and blah blah blah"

    i told em all "look, if I'm making a mistake, imma make it myself, but I'm not gonna let your opinion make my decision for me"

    i went for it. naturally they were wrong, and I'm glad i did it. i ended up leaving him for reasons i had discovered myself. sorry for the story but i feel like no one should let others decide who someone really is, because the only person who knows is them.

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What Guys Said 5

  • It's called intelligence gathering without revealing your hand. The CIA does it.

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  • Intelligence gathering, which is useful. Naturally, I will ask the more serious questions from the person of interest.

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  • I hate it... thats like a recipe for drama. Something everyone sorely doesn't need.

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  • It's cowardly... Goes anon

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    • good point but I won't be here too long

  • i don't know other people

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What Girls Said 1

  • It's not cowardly.
    I like it and find it cute when guys don't approach me directly.

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    • well it is for that, but im refering to friends and drama

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