We dated for 11 months. During the summer, he had a internship and hung out with girls which was weird for me. I guess i lost trust in him. I started accusing him of cheating even though he said he didn't or wouldn't. Well he started his senior year. We don't go to the same school anymore. He just was a bit distant and i just thought the worst. I went on his phone and saw a message from this girl who has a bad reputation. And i didn't read it but i confronted him over text. Since he told me she flirted with his friends. And he told me that she was being friendly to him as well. He said she only messaged him once and she would talk to him at school. I asked for how long. He said for several weeks. I told him that those girls didn't respect relationships. He said they would often talk about me in the first place and how i shouldn't be flustered by such women. That perhaps she just wanted guy friends. Well I let that go but he would often choose his friends over me etc. We argued often until we just broke up. It was too toxic. And later after the break up i find out him and his friend (who the girl flirts with) are hanging out with her 2 friends all the time during the weekend. He has been hanging out with her and that friend and her friends often. I haven't heard of him hanging out with her alone but I don't know. I don't know if he did cheat on me or what
I don't know if I was cheated on or not, still asking myself after the break up?
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You won't know and even if he did he'd still deny it right, it sucks I know but you have to move on and stop thinking about it. Most importantly don't settle for someone who makes you feel less, but also don't expect too much as soon as you get into a relationship, people are different especially men and women, we aren't mind readers so we have to literally communicate with words.0
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