They want to pick me up and for me to hang out with them tomorrow. My foster mom said she doesn't mind as long as nothing bad is done
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Most Helpful Guy
It's just sad how people assume 20 year old guys have an ulterior pedophile/rapist mentally. There can be an intellectual connection, and not all guys are interested in sex with anybody of the opposite sex. I seen some high school students who go to university and hung out with men and women in their early twenties. I even seen in chess tournament high school students hang out in with early twenties men and women. People these days are too sick minded and can't look at things platonically. They think everything is sexual because they themselves are sick with too much sex in their minds. As a kid, I got better with adults older than me. We did have an intellectual connection, whether chess or a field of study. Unless, you're hanging out at night or somewhere private or getting in their car then I would have a red flag, and if there's innocent they won't pressure you but respect you. However, people have a wrap reality that demonize men as pedophiles/rapists. Though, I highly doubt anybody would be suspicious of a early twenty woman hanging out with a 15 old year. Yet ironically, when the true rapist/pedophile appears, we turn a blind's eye until it's too late. Truly sad0
Most Helpful Girl
Inherently no, it's not wrong. Especially if nothing seedy is going on. However, if they are interested in you more than friends, I would be very careful hanging out with them.
It kind of reminds me of the creepy older guys who used to hang around the smoking pit when I was in high school. They were 20+ and they used to come 'have smokes' with the students who would smoke. Of course they would attest nothing bad was going on. But I know they dated some of the girls. There used to be fights at the pit over guys all the time.
Most of the time the guys would date different girls who were all in high school. They couldn't get girls their own age.
Really, what it comes down to is you are not legal. So if they want anything more than just friends with you, then that's wrong.
But I've hung out with older people when I was that age too. But it was alway with a bunch of people, never alone.
I would be very careful.0