i'm thick, wouldn't say i'm fat but i'm chubbier than needed and i'm not really sure any guy will go for me. i'm kinda going through a dry spot and i haven't had a boyfriend in 3 months. is it because of my weight?
Most Helpful Guy
I use to but not anymore since how shallow and picky they are and got dumped by every single one of them (actually 6) who don't need me anymore since we ar in a healthy relationship.
Last year me and my girlfriend have been dating a week. She asked me this dumb question saying why black men like fat women. I said I don't know. I should have dumped her but she's frigging hot because kf her body but at the end i feel bad. She'problemgin and im a virgin and we never had sex but dry humps. Then at the end of the week she told me she doesn't want a relationship, she wants to finish school and i am like okay and after 2 days she posted a picture up on snapchat of her dog saying she wants a man. So i removed her off everything including her number. Now this year yesterday my friend text me on kik. He said she has a boyfriend now and he gave me his instagram. She is currently dating a guy in her race and she is happy and im like nice! I wonder what will happen if she has babt and if she does i won't take her back if her boyfriend leaves her. My friend told me she said she likes black guys but she lied. She used us as a backup boyfriend yet she cheated on me with him before she break up with me.
My black ex did it too so now you know.
You can say i am generalizing, giving a terrible story. But i am truly not and this my story when i am with fat ladies thinking that they are models. I even see them modelling themselves on dating sites getting a million likes and they're nothing but self-centered lying... You know? And i thought wrong about them. Men said fat women are easy to get and they are a lot nicer but they aren't. And for those of you who said that, they think thay you are hot like brad pit or shemaar moore or drake ajd all that crap. Or some high school musical actors. That's all it.0
Most Helpful Girl
There are so many fat people in relationships... and some are not only fat, but ugly too...
The problem is, when you refuse to change the way you eat and AIM to attract the type of guy who is attracted to more slender girls...
There will always be someone interested in you, but the question is, will you notice HIM? ... if you're not attracting the guys that YOU are attracted to, then it's time to change your lifestyle to attract what you want... OR stay the same and take a look around you and start to notice the type of guys who are attracted to the type of body you have and such.
it's one or the other. and you can change that.0