Is having sex with the guy you're dating on the 2nd date problematic? I'm probably just being paranoid when i say things have changed, but he hasn't texted me everyday like he usually did. I feel like i've been doing most of the initiating lately, he still texts me back but sometimes no reply. I know he's been busy with work but could it be because i gave in and now he knows he's got the upper hand?
Most Helpful Guy
It could be that it's already happened so he knows he doesn't have to try as hard. Most people put on a front when they first meet someone to give them the impression they're better than they are. Guys will put a lot of effort into trying to have sex with a girl for the first time but, after she gives it up, he knows his efforts have paid off and he can slack off a bit. It's still entirely probable that he likes.0
Most Helpful Girl
The right guy will still be just as into you if you have sex with him 5 hours after meeting him... it has nothing to do with the fact that it was only the second date.
You can try to stop initiating contact and see if that prompts him to be more interested but beware. You don't want to start off a relationship playing games. If you really like this guy, the best thing to do is be upfront with him about what you both want. You have nothing to lose and honest is best in an intimate relationship.
I wish you the best of luck but please know your worth. If he's using the fact that you had sex against you, let. him. go!!!0