Ok so I'm in college right I live in a triple. One of my roommates invited his friend to stay in our room without consulting with the rest of us he just showed up one night like is this such and such room? I'm like sure yeah. he had his bags but I thought it was for the night , come to find out. He cheated on his girlfriend who he was staying with in her apt for free. Now to me this sounds like the dumbest shit ever because I'm paying for my room in loans like my roommates this guy didn't have to pay for shit but maybe his classes and a meal plan ok. You cheat on your girlfriend who you stay with for free? He ruined something good for one night smh like he just keeps saying oh we weren't even really together but they slept in the same bed still you can't tell me you weren't having sex with her. So his argument doesn't make sense as to why he slept with another girl. I get that he has nowhere to go but that's not my fault he can stay for awhile but he has to find a permanent place or go make up with his girl IDC. Am I wrong or fucked up for thinking this way?
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I believe cheating can happen to anyone, despite almost everyone on GaG being so convinced of their superior morality and being so morally righteous. I have never cheated so far but how could I ever say for sure what's gonna happen to me in a few years. Maybe there's gonna be some crazy situation that I just can't anticipate. That's why I try to be careful when judging people who have cheated.
However, where I do agree with you is that your roommate should definitely have asked you for consent and that this other guy can't stay at your place. He has to find his own place. It's unfair and frankly very impolite to just settle down in your room like that. Also, I wonder why he did live at his girlfriend's apartment for free. That sounds kinda lame too. I mean, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and you live together with him/her, isn't it self-understanding to pay half of the rent?0
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