We are 22, in college. All I know of his previous sexual activity is that he had sex with a girl 3 months before me (when we had sex 2 months ago). He said he has never had a girlfriend. He doesn't usually like girls that way. He is too busy right now with his track season & traveling to think of a girlfriend (it lasts til June).
When we met I was planning on doing my first ever one night stand. LMAO, as if. I caught full feels for the dude. We kept in contact and kept meeting to have sex for these last 2 months. He promised me when I told him my rules to our arrangement, that we are exclusive sex partners.. No other chick can get his dick and same for me. Then I caught him doing some sketchy behavior with a chick on social media, but he claimed it was his friend since they live together. I told him goodbye -and I was serious, but he Kept texting me to "trust him, he doesn't need anyone if he has me, that I just need to trust him" etc. it all seems TOO sketchy to take his fibs, I told him he has to promise on our deal, that I won't have it if he continues this, and once again he said he promised.
Im tempted now to tell him that he has to get to know me as a person before we do anything again because I know what I want and it isn't "this." I have limited sugar and I want it reserved for a man who is well invested. I have so much love to give, and this isn't where it should be spent.
What do I do? I have never felt such a battle between my head and heart and I can't take it anymore. I am done playing the fool. Will my message be the end of him?
- Leave him, now! There's no way this man will settle down now.Vote A
- Stay, i think he has potential if you tell him what you want.Vote B