like your not the idea person you wish to be for them. And you know its gonna take years before you become what you consider as perfect person. Sometimes I find it hard to accept the things I have been given and dealt with. Like sometimes I just wish I could change everything about me just so I can match the other person who cares about me. Like what I have isn't good enough.
Most Helpful Guy
I dont think I'd want to be husband material, Id rather be fling material. 😎
"Sometimes I find it hard to accept the things I have been given and dealt with."
I can relate to that although I wouldn't change to become what others want. I have my own idea of perfection in my head that I compare myself to. Probably about average in most areas but I still couldnt think of a single aspect of me that I wouldn't at least slightly modify if it were possible. Sadly I feel like even if I vould be everything I wish I was or have everything I wish I had, Id most likely grow bored of it all anyway :/
Probably not mentally or emotionally healthy to think like this tho.
Most Helpful Girl
I feel like that, when i've felt like my boyfriend and I aren't on the same level of understanding. He thinks one way about something and i think the other. Sometimes i feel like with all these misunderstandings happening, he would be better off being with someone who is similar to him. Someone who's a logical thinker, not someone who is emotional. It can be frustrating a lot. It's hard to not be able to think like he does. He can always see things differently then I do, and i feel like it's difficult for us some of the time. We do understand each other when we communicate and listen to each other, but i feel like he can find someone who understands him because they have his sort of personality, and I don't, it just saves time and more time to enjoy the good times. I just don't want to put him through that stress of communicating when i'm emotional. He'll try to tell me what his thinking and it's hard to interpret when i'm an emotional person. Sometimes i wish i was less emotional and all the more logic.2