I really don't think I am the loving kind at the stage I am at in my life right now. I'm 21, go to college, and since New Years I've revamped my social life a bit. I'm really a, externally, beautiful girl, and I know I can have my way with a lot of guys. I've gone on so many dates the past 2 months, but I haven't taken them seriously, except one. I fell for a super beautiful college athlete, we've been hanging & having sex for the past 2 months, and we still are in contact and plan to hook up more. I just really fell for the dude. Hardcore. He broke me continuously though, played with my head, had sex with another girl when out of town, etc. He knows i adore him. He's broken rules I set for myself; sex on the first night, sending nudes, letting a guy work his way in my life over and over even when I know he's toxic.
i met this new guy. He is super nice and respectful. We've been spending hours and hours together the past few days since we met. We've only made out and I'm not even sure he has had sex before. He thinks I'm this gorgeous innocent girl though... And I'm not. I used to be. But honestly I've been talking to so many dudes (maybe 30-40) and have been having ongoing sex with this other guy who I'm not with, and this new guy kisses me a little bit and thinks he's moving too fast. He has really taken a liking to me too. He is already buying me things, throws out "girlfriend" every so often, talks and listens to me, texts me all the time, etc. And I can just tell by his eyes that he is really falling for me. He said he hasn't dated in 4 years, and hasn't felt this way for a girl ever.
Do i tell him about the other guy? I am still seeing the other dude. I'm still hung up on him. But I also like the new guy. I also kinda just wanna dump both and meet other guys and have one nighters with because I'm feelin like it.
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well after reading your story ( assuming its real not fake ) at least you admit to not being good at all and actually being slutty, something many girls on here attempt to dodge by attacking the person telling them so good for you, me personally i tried moving slow once, not for me i dont do that "caring" about girls anymore you're either mine or iam gone , so tell him or just keep having sex you can't undone what has been done, he will be really sad can't do much about it but now is better than later... thats why talking too much a girl and getting attached is never a good idea if you dont move fast...1