And that person has been responding to text messages late for a while. I don't know if they're trying to follow some kinda social rule like responding 3 days, but recently he responded to a text a week later. And I remember once asking him why he usually responds later, and he usually has some excuse. But now I don't even want to talk to him anymore because of how late he responds. Am I being reasonable?
Most Helpful Guy
some people just aren't into the texting thing. It can be hard to keep up with it, if you don't let it absorb you. Especially if you don't have a lot of people that you text.
You could probably just tell him that it's kind of important to you, and see how he reacts.
Most Helpful Girl
He might actually be busy. You have to be the judge of that. Also, if you are willing to wait for responses then keep talking, if not then don't respond.
You are being very reasonable. You feel like he isn't putting any effort in. And honestly after 3 days the topic is old.
What were his excuses?0