Is a woman less approachable if wearing headphones?

There is this guy at my workplace that always flirst with me and I flirt back. We text often and there is definitely attraction. He always comes up and has a chat with me without doubt, however today I had head-phones in listening to music and I noticed he was looking at me (at the corner of my eye) but did not come up.


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  • earbuds is the universal language of saying "don't you dare talk to me"

    exceptions: at the gym and asking someone if they're using a machine or if they'll spot you.

    That's literally the only exception.

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What Guys Said 15

  • duh, U have headphones on! headphones mean U are rocking out, and don't want to be messed with! If you noticed him looking at U and wanted him to approach U, take those things off, and get the talk going.

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  • EVERYONE is less approachable if wearing headphones!
    Headphones pretty much scream "Do not talk to me. I'm enjoying my music. If I wanted you to talk to me, I'd take the damn things off!"

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  • Yea it depends on the person if they mind interrupting you while your listening to something. Some people care while others don't. Honestly if I'm listening to my headphones I will still easily be able to hear what people say.

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  • It definitely looks like you don't wanna be disturbed so he left

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  • Yes.
    And 2x less approachable than that, is a woman on her phone.

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  • Only if he feels like him interrupting you would be a bad thing. If not, then it won't matter at all.

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  • Yes, if you have headphones that's like saying "don't bother me".

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  • Yeah because he thinks your attention is somewhere else.

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  • Yes, it is a signal that says, "Don't talk to me."

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  • Of course.

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  • If she's hot, no

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  • Everyone is less approachable when wearing headphones.

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  • It makes anyone less approachable

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  • Yepp!

    But girls still try to talk to me regardless, so girls don't seem to care about that etiquette

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  • anybody is

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What Girls Said 3

  • I've been hoping that the whole time I put my earbuds in but sometimes people still try to talk to me.

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  • I'm always wearing my headphones, and guys inturupts me while I'm working and wearing my headphones. It depends on the guy I guess.

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  • Ya because when someone is wearing headphones, they are usually trying to listen to something, and guys don't want to bother you when they are trying to flirt with you.

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