in two months ill be 24 and i literally wasted my 23th, with doing nothing fun, just school, i feel so emptt and sad, regret, i barely have any friends left or life, im stuck... how can i get pat this regret, the older you get the harder it is too make friends... the guy i wanted rejected me cause i wasn't from his social class... such a dark year, a lot of doubt, darkness, depression etc
Most Helpful Guy
Get beyond your past and regrets. In life we have lessons and not regrets and every day brings a new opportunity, make use of it and stop complaining.1
Most Helpful Girl
Okay. Firstly because it bothers me greatly, 23th is not correct. It's 23rd.
Secondly, I'm sorry that you had a rough go this year. So did I. However, you have to accept and take responsibility. Unless you actively seek out experiences, nothing in your life will ever happen to you. If you don't put the same kind of effort into making friends that you put into your schoolwork, you will never make any friends. That's just how it is. It sucks that the guy you like didn't want to go out with you, but unfortunately that's life. You will get rejected and you will be expected to lick your wounds and carry on with your business.
I empathize with you greatly, but you need to pull yourself up and get on with things. Sitting around in a pool of self-pity will not make your life more enjoyable. If you want to make more friends and be more social, you have to get out there and do things.0