I'm Lexi. I'm 16 and so when I was 10 I had surgery on my bladder. And it left a huge scar down there. And like. Its
so embarrassing😧 and yesterday the boy I've been dating for like a year asked me for a nude picture. And I told him about my scar and he didn't respond until today. Which was him breaking up with me. What do I do?
Most Helpful Guy
First, the scar. It will slowly fade as time goes by. A real man won't be bothered by it, anyway. Very few of us go through life without some sort of battle scar, me included. This guy is not worth worrying about. He's so shallow and also disrespectful.
Now the nude pic. NEVER send anyone a nude pic, or vid. Not even one in underwear or bikinis. Once they leave your phone, tablet, laptop, desktop or whatever, you have NO control over them. You also leave yourself open to being blackmailed into sending more and more explicit ones. Nude pics can be right round the world in seconds on the internet. Please, never go there. NOT EVER!2
Most Helpful Girl
I could go motherly on you and tell you how at 16 you should not be sending nudes, but it happens. Instead, I will remark how immature this kid is. This boy sounds like a complete jerk for breaking up with you over a scar. You know what? It is best you found out now. You are better off without him and waiting on a better guy.
Keep your head and phone up. :] Even if you're comfortable with your scar, other people won't be. They are looking for perfection and will not find it. Let the joke be on him.1