My bestfriend is ditching me because of some guy who lives in another country after dating almost 7 months. All we talk a about is her boyfriend, always fucking same topic... I get it!! Like why are you wasting our friendship because of some guy, like whyyyy? Why do people do this shit! ? Its not like you have to drop your friendship because some cock? Now she's moving out to live with him, she was like "lets keep in contact " Please like she would even bother to do that.
And dont say its only me, a lot of people have had this problem as well.
Most Helpful Guy
Friends are often ditched in the early relationship phase. For the simple reason there are only 24 hours in a day: time management/selectivity of their "points of interest" thus.
Very often also , a insecure S. O. will insist silenly or overtly that they drop their other gender friends, even if they are 'just friends or friend zoned: jealousy.0
Most Helpful Girl
I had huge falling out with one of my closest friends because of a guy. This guy came and she completely changed. She started treating her family bad and spending all her time with this dude. We almost got into a physical fight because of him. And he was a dick. Which is why I couldn't understand why she was acting the way that she was. I kept trying to tell her but she wouldn't listen. She got pregnant by him and called me in tears when she was around 7 months because she had found out that he was cheating on her. We reconciled after that but she stayed with him. Even had another baby with him. And last year she found out that he has cheated on her the entire 6 years that they were together.
I say all that to say that sometimes you just have to distance yourself. If you've told her that it bothers you and she does nothing to change it, then put some space between the 2 of you.0