Girls tend not to like me. I don't know why, I'm nice to them but they always try to tare me down make me feel bad about myself, why?

What gives them so much pleasure in making fun of me and the way I look. They try to change me and dye my hair dark cuz they hate my hair blonde and they say im too nice and they always consider me stupid and once got the nickname barbie for a little bit. It hurt my feelings and I don't know why girls are so cruel. I've cried myself too many times from the way I've been treated and memories of childhood and wonder if I were considered beautiful the world and people would be nicer to me. No matter how kind and loving and nice I am too others I can never fully trust them anymore. I don't know why.


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  • I'm sorry, Baby. It sounds to me like all your friends are, in some way, jealous of you. And all of you have self-esteem issues. It also sounds as though they treat you like a beach ball, batting you about at their whim.

    For my advice:
    1) find yourself a new group of friends. A group whose individuals are more self-assured and mature and don't need to tear each other down to build themselves up.

    2) No one can make you feel bad without your permission. Don't give it to them. Same goes for manipulating; hair color, etc.

    3) Your biggest problem appears to be a pathological lack of self esteem. Since your 'friends' suck and can't help you with that, you'll probably need some counseling to deal with that issue.

    4) You're as beautiful as you feel. IMHO your profile picture is beautiful. Yet, your Recent Activities on your GAG page shows multiple examples of you calling yourself ugly. This is a lie from the pit of hell and you must learn to stop saying that to and about yourself. The counseling in #3 should help that.

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  • You're too naive towards girls. You need to get a grip and show them who's boss

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What Guys Said 9

  • First things first, you look gorgeous in your profile pic. The next thing is that it doesn't matter how other people feel about you, it is how you feel about yourself that is important. So what you don't get on with a big group of people, they don't sound like very nice people people to begin with , they feel they need to belittle other people by being cruel to them. To be honest I would not want to be friends with them so you keep being your nice, beautiful self and you will meet people who will like/love you for who you really are becoming your REAL FRIEND who will be there for you at every turn. One REAL FRIEND is worth more than a hundred acquaintances and all the mean bitches put together.
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  • I've discovered women can be incredibly evil toward a beautiful woman or one they consider better than them. Especially if she doesn't behave like a fuckin queen. Don't know why. I think you should start befriending men. We're not mean toward women (unless someone has the brain of a 12 y/o) and definitely prefer the company of a beautiful one to our own kind. Oh, we're also more fun :)

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  • Girls are great at that. I think they get jealous and it makes them feel better about themselves. I can see why many girls would be jealous over you. You're so pretty. Try not to let it bother you. What they think or don't think about you changes nothing about you. Just smile at them and know they're just jealous and walk away. They're threatened by you cuz you're gorgeous, simple.

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  • They are just young and immature. You are young and mature and you carry yourself like a lady. You ll be the one to succeed having thT great personality that companies look for. Just be who you are and don't let them try to make you into the immature girls they are.

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  • I think it is because you are the pinnacle of the modeling industry. Many women wish they had blonde hair and a good jaw line with a feminine nose. I also have very high standards. If you want an accurate estimate of what you look like then figure out which types of men want to date you because you who are surrounded by is who you most likely are.

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  • Sorry Hun there the harsh reality... Most girls can't be Gould friend with other girls.. Too much jealousy and hate between them

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  • Why don't you have a boy friend

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  • If you were considered any more beautiful, the women would have torn you apart even worse. Most women are horrible to any woman that is prettier than them. Of the few that aren't they soon join in with the herd mentality in order to not be singled out themselves.

    There is a reason so many women prefer to have friends that are guys. Of the women that have long term girlfriends, to hear what they have done to each other over the years chills me to the bone. It reminds me of that saying, keep your friends close but your enemies closer, and these very good "friends" sound more like enemies they are keeping around for some reason.

    Most of us guys are just as sick of being judged by women as you are, and have no problem being friends with a woman as long as she isn't going to judge us or tell us what to do. If you are wanting more friends I would suggest guy friends. Since most women aren't jealous of guys, their hateful nature doesn't come out as often.

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