ok guys question, question :P
see, I am not a touchy person, like at all. Even when it wasn t meant in a sexual way, I don t like it.
For example, during my swimming course guys would grab me, or pull my leg, try to drawn me, tell me they re drawning so I can save them etc.. lol I don t want to go wrap my body around his and try to lift him up huh...
Or also they keep touching my waist and when I say hi I usually shake hands and last time the guy got annoyed why I didn t give him a kiss.
ok I guess you got an overview haha. Should I chill a bit or that s perfectly normal?
Most Helpful Guy
nothing wrong with it I think. some people are more comfortable than others with it... I don't really like it either. But it depends of course a bit what it is... the question is always, is the body contact necessary? Giving someone the hand, sure that's completely normal... but you don't shouldn't touch someone's waist unless you are really close (and even then it depends on a couple of things). Same thing with kisses... I do it usually only with family members, others do it with friends too but that would make me uncomfortable.
I'm in Germany and most friends hug each other when they go or leave... here it was the case with my friends, so of course it makes me a bit uncomfortable and some were joking about it which I hate.
It's totally fine the way you feel as long as you don't have any anxieties... don't change just because a guy wanted a kiss or shit like that1
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Most Helpful Girl
No, you are fine. These guys are being too aggressive for you. If it was a romantic interest and you two were messing around in the pool then, I would say that you need to loosen up a bit, but if they are just some random guys grabbing you like that, I would tell them to back off.2