I am in highschool and I'm constantly bullied but the worst thing is I blame myself for it. I will admit I'm kinda curvy\fluffy and I'm average looking but lately due to all of this I feel like I'm not worth to be around. Out of my family I feel like I am the one that is there for decoration. Im being made fun of because I am five eleven and two hundered and ten pounds. I act kinda guyish and I dont really do anything too awfully girly butI want to know that if something is wrong with me how can I fix it? That's all I get from anyone anymore is that I'm a mess up and I need to get my shit together.
Most Helpful Guy
There is nothing wrong with you. Don't blame yourself for what others do to you. People bully other people because they want to feel power and control. Often, they inwardly resent something about you that they don't see in themselves, so they bully you to make up for that. You are not a mess up. People who bully others are the bad ones with something wrong. Being the victim is never the victims fault. You wouldn't say "oh, well that person was asking to get robbed" because it doesn't make sense, the robber was clearly the person in the wrong. It is the same way with bullying don't think "I was asking to get bullied" because it is the bully who is in the wrong.0
Most Helpful Girl
Keep studying, focus on your future, and excel in life.
Those same people that made fun of you, years from now, will eventually be calling you "Manager, boss, Supervisor, executive"
Never give up!
None of this will matter anymore.
This is only short term.
I went through bullying as well in high school, and trust me no matter what you do in life there will always be those who talk.
Just live for yourself.
You don't need fixing, they do.0