Like Women get upset if their man is thinking about another woman while having sex with them. Why get upset? I know you want him to think of you but the guy has to have variety... Its in their nature.
But if he's only having sex with YOU, whilst thinking about another woman now and again, why the heck does it matter so much? At least he's not having sex with HER. YOU are getting the pleasure out of it, not the woman in his head.
If it helps him get off, and you then WHY NOT?
Maybe if you think more THIS WAY then your feelings won't hurt as bad. LOL
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When guys say we like a girl with confidence, your mentality is a good example of what we are talking about. Women that are insecure, bring all sorts of drama into the relationship that most guys would prefer to avoid.
I can understand her being upset if he is telling her that, but generally it is the woman that is asking him if he ever thinks of anyone else. If he says yes, she gets angry for thinking of someone else, and if he says no, she gets angry because she knows he is lying, as she does the same thing and knows he does as well. As long as you aren't flaunting your fantasy in your partners face, trying to make them insecure, they need to just move on and respect your right to your own thoughts.1