Only smash the Xbox. :D
No breaking his consoles and games is a bad idea plus you are probably not thinking to clearly. Which is cool with all the hormones going on with you.
If anything what you do is while he's asleep Unplug all his consoles, take all his video games, and hide them some where. Then tell him he's not getting them back until y'all talk about this issue.
Plus since your pregnant, maybe he doesn't know how to deal with it and help you. So he plays video games due to not knowing what to do. Along with freaking out/ stressing about once the baby comes.
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Imagine something you really love. An item you've worked hard to pay for and something you've dedicated a lot of time into and your partner destroys it. How would you feel? It's cruel and unnecessary. It would cause a lot of problems in your relationship - you don't do that to someone you love. Just like if your partner had a sports hobby, you wouldn't destroy their hard earned trophies because YOU don't like them spending so much time on it. It's something he enjoys and it's something you can also get involved with if you opened your mind a little. Just don't be stupid.
hmmm... question is do u want him to kill u in cold blood after u do this?
Don't do it. You think it's a good decision now, but you will regret it later. Not only is it a massive waste of money, it will also not help a single bit. What he is doing is not right either, but if you destroy his consoles you won't be any better than him. It will most likely only make him angry, and trust me, it won't solve the problem either. If you really can't get him to talk to you, you could opt to hide his consoles and give them back once you two have had a talk. Just promise me you won't destroy his belongings. Nobody wants that to happen to them.
You said it yourself. Being pregnant could be driving you crazier. If you going to smash the video games wait until you give birth.
That way you are sure you are the one smashing your beloved boyfriend games. Not the hormones.
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Destruction of private property is punishable by the law. Not to mention he'll be way too furious to pay any attention to your requests and it will only get worse. You're angry and it is completely understandable. Switching off the power of the whole house is much more sensible. No destruction and you'll have his undivided attention.
You're fucking crazy. So you think smashing stuff is gonna get you what you want? What are you, a kid? Is that what you're gonna teach your future kid, that breaking stuff is the way to go?
And you think he's gonna be ok with you doing that?
Come on... -_-Do you have $ for counseling... you could use it for someone to talk to and work through these issues and he needs to go as well. This is the tip of the iceberg in relationships...
What you are asking for is very reasonable and your sadness/frustration/anger is a reasonable emotion. The woman wants to be connected to the man (Genesis 2 Bible) as does the man. But, he sounds like he is still very immature or avoiding discussion. Are the discussions good ones or are they painful and emotional? Guys like to avoid emotional pain... especially if they are wounded.
I would not break the game systems yet, I would talk to counselor. If you choose not to do that, you could try putting a note on the TV... talk to girlfriend first for 20 minutes, then you get your power adapter to run the system...
Sadly, this is a bad sign that he doesn't value you or the relationship or there are problems. It won't get better on its own, so get help."I just want to spend time with him and maybe this will help."
Okay I'm willing to chalk up this logic to the pregger hormones talking in you.
That is the DUMBEST idea ever. Not only will this not help it will blow up in your face. He'll either just dump you or find something that you truly cherish in your life and destroy it as well.u need to join in with him. start like a drug. for "free". then after a little bit he will get use to it. then start requesting that he start doing things to keep u helping him or spending time in his world.
my ex didn't do the "free" part, but she would leave me alone ;) and in return i would spend time with her for 2h while her show was on and helped her with dinner. she got what she wanted and i got left alone while playing. cause if i am yelling at a game... u comeing in and asking what im yelling at is not going to help. but as others have said, dont break his stuff, one way or another, he will jsut get more. and it will be a very high chance of u getting hurt urself. u really need to try to go into his world and pull him out from the inside. or just leave.is he making money out of his youtube channel?
does he "stream" while playing online? maybe he wants to make some $$ out of it.
Not saying is right to ignore you, he should pay attention to you as well,
Do not destroy their video games or console lol, that's going to be just worseIt won't help. Tell him that he needs to limit his video game time or you are out.
Sorry but this guy sounds like a loser. You are having a baby with a loser.
Ladies - be careful who you open your legs for because you may end up here. Tied to a guy that doesn't even live in reality for the next 18 years as you jointly try to raise a lot child. I'd hate to be depending on him for child support.Try this:
Make a shcedule.
From xx : xx to xx : xx he have the right to do watever he wants.
But from xx : xx , he can only do stuff with you.
Make the schedule with him, print it in paper and you both promisse to respect the contract. Then you both make your signutures bellow. Make a copy for him and one for you.You're going to have 2 outcomes and they won't be pretty
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if he's a true gamer like you say,
he will become enraged and probably beat the shit out of you because he's so mad
trust me when i was into gaming like that i wanted to beat the shit out of people for just cutting it off in my face.
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he's going to call the police and have you arrested for damaging his property and you'll probably have to replace them both when he takes you to court
What i prefer you do is take the video game systems or take their cords and tell him if he wants them back he should talk to youWOAH!!! I think you need to simmer down.
You've got a lot of hormonal shit going on, but is breaking stuff when you get angry the sort of example you're going to want to set for you're child? Probably not, because it's an immature way to go about things.
Maybe take away his games and refuse to give them back until he talks to you. It sounds like he should be giving you much more attention, but bear in mind there may be a reason for his behaviour; it could be the stress of your pregnancy, or not knowing what to do, or something else entirely.
Just take a deep breathe and try and sort things out maturely. Take away his games. unplug his consoles if you think that'll force him to talk, and sort things out.hey dick head boyfriend she is pregnant shut off the fucking console and support her pregnancy is not easy on the body or the emotions so be there for her show her love and understanding and show her she is more important to you than a fucking game
Smashing everything will not help, leave him, if he does not come around to get you back he is not worth staying with. He should have more sensitivity and time for you.
If you do that, he can sue you for over a thousand dollars in damages, not to mention leave you. Then again, he's acting like an asshole. But tell me this, you fell for him because he's driven wants to succeed, right? Well that's what you get when you go for guys like that. The ones who love making money and stuff.
Talk to him and if he won't listen... Break up with him. Dont break anything of his because he might dump you on the spot, break something of yours or he might even take legal action for breaking his stuff. (The laws an interesting thing)
I have dumped people who were more into video games than the real world. Its not worth fighting with a man child.I'm not a guy but you shouldn't damage things that aren't yours, period. In a relationship, you should respect each other. Talking to him might be difficult and he might just be stressed about the pregnancy so he plays video games and whatnot. Try to have a conversation with him while he isn't doing anything so he isn't distracted. Talking to him while he's in-game or something isn't really a good idea because his focus is on something else. I hope this helps :)
"talk about it later"
Your reply should be "Because you are playing video games. This is what I want to talk about. It's getting too much"
Something like that.
And if he then STILL refuses, just break up with him.
What's breaking his stuff going to accomplish? Nothing. It's just childish, just agression.I would not break it on him because they are very expensive.. but I would say to him you seem to have more time for time for them games then you do for me even when it is you I came over to see.. tell him to pay a bit of attention to you.. he can play those games any dam time.. but if he picks the gaming over you.. it may be time to walk away.. find that someone that will give you the time.. lots out there that will.. I would.. take care now
Calm your titts down girl!!
If you smash any of his toys he might smash you... XD
Anyways I think you should smash his xbox and not his ps4
Ps4 is awesometalk to him, tell him you need attention. Don't just tell him stop playing video games. I know I'd stop if you went straight forward like that, if I cared for you.
As for the youtube channel, nowdays a lot of people use that as a job. Can't really stop that.if you wanna break up, break up. But destroying someones good is not the right way to do it. You will be the one who pays for it... just so you know. And it won't help your relationship
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