ABSOLUTLY NOT! You obviously have no ideas how many problems that's going to start. It's bad enough when someone messes with your game data destroying a whole system is asking for trouble and a lot of it.
Prego or not that doesn't give you the right to throw a temper tandrum like a toddler act like a civilized adult. no one is entitled to anyone's attention no matter the circumstances. If you plan on breaking it I suggest you have money saved up to replace it and at least get an upgraded model for him having to deal with childish actions.
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Go for it. And enjoy your jail time. Destruction of property is a crime, and the police will not have any sympathy for the "I'm a needy bitch who gets violent when ignored" defense.
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Why don't you understand what i'm going through? Do you think that being pregnant is easy? I used to support him before but things are different now!
I am not unsympathetic, and I don't think he is in the right, but destruction of property is a crime. You have no right. If you choose to do such a thing, do so full in the knowledge that you will face consequences.
Why would you take that out on his stuff? You'll just have to pay for it and come out looking like a crazy bitch. Just break up with him.
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Crazy bitch? Do you have any idea how it feels like to be pregnant and have someone that keep making you angry all the time like my boyfriend? i still love him but at the same time I'm angry because of him.
Obviously a man cannot know what it feels like to be pregnant. However, that doesn't change the fact that it's the wrong tactic. You start breaking stuff you simply appear to be a crazy bitch. It's not going to have the result you want.
Smashing his stuff won't solve any problems and will create new ones. He'll just go buy another machine when that money could be used for the pregnancy/baby. There's got to be a time when he's not playing for you to talk about his playing.
if you do that, then the result can be pretty dangerous, but your boyfriend is very immature. you should tell him and warn him that you'll smash his console
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Yeah we always end up with " yeah sure we will talk about it later" and i can't hear it one more time :/
I will warn him for the last time. By the way he's 25 years old but like you see :/ although i'm younger but i feel that i'm mature more than him sometimes.
I don't hate video games or something and i used to support him but lately it started to take his time and just want to play more. Those guys who have YouTube channels are obsessed with it more anything else in their life and this is happening here now. Maybe I'm crazy because i'm pregnant but seriously what would you do if you were in my place?
The hormones are getting to you. Don't smash his stuff, that's really immature and a sure way of burning your bridges. You can try other things like not doing anything for him (like cooking), or staying at a friend's house, until he talks to you.
There is no excuse for destroying his property. That would just make you look psychotic. If his video game playing is really that much of a problem for you and he refuses to talk about it with you then all you can do is break up with him and move on.
I dont think that will get you any where but in trouble with the law. I am with every one else here, if he doesn't want to change, then leave, if you dont want to leave seek counseling
Yeah but if you aren't sure do a trial run. While he's playing "accidentally" shut it off while dusting or something. If he freaks too nad you'll know its a bad idea but he won't blame you too long because it was an "accident". And for all the people who are thinking "but he'll lose his progress.." or whatever. Just stop. It's a videogame.
Don't smash anything, just leave. If you smash his stuff you'll most likely have to pay for it, you'd be doing yourself a major disservice and it will only make things worse.
If you wanted it gone for a bit so you can talk, it may be better to hide it instead. Smashing it is a bad idea and you will end up regretting that you did it. If you hide it you get the same effect that he can't use it but you can still give it back once you have talked to him
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ABSOLUTLY NOT! You obviously have no ideas how many problems that's going to start. It's bad enough when someone messes with your game data destroying a whole system is asking for trouble and a lot of it.
Prego or not that doesn't give you the right to throw a temper tandrum like a toddler act like a civilized adult. no one is entitled to anyone's attention no matter the circumstances. If you plan on breaking it I suggest you have money saved up to replace it and at least get an upgraded model for him having to deal with childish actions.
Go for it.
And enjoy your jail time. Destruction of property is a crime, and the police will not have any sympathy for the "I'm a needy bitch who gets violent when ignored" defense.
Why don't you understand what i'm going through? Do you think that being pregnant is easy? I used to support him before but things are different now!
I am not unsympathetic, and I don't think he is in the right, but destruction of property is a crime. You have no right.
If you choose to do such a thing, do so full in the knowledge that you will face consequences.
Why would you take that out on his stuff? You'll just have to pay for it and come out looking like a crazy bitch. Just break up with him.
Crazy bitch? Do you have any idea how it feels like to be pregnant and have someone that keep making you angry all the time like my boyfriend? i still love him but at the same time I'm angry because of him.
Obviously a man cannot know what it feels like to be pregnant. However, that doesn't change the fact that it's the wrong tactic. You start breaking stuff you simply appear to be a crazy bitch. It's not going to have the result you want.
:( you're right
You CAN, however, take the detachable power cords and hide them somewhere. Same point made, no collateral damage.
I will do that instead of acting crazy
Good choice. Also a cheaper one.
Smashing his stuff won't solve any problems and will create new ones. He'll just go buy another machine when that money could be used for the pregnancy/baby. There's got to be a time when he's not playing for you to talk about his playing.
if you do that, then the result can be pretty dangerous, but your boyfriend is very immature. you should tell him and warn him that you'll smash his console
Yeah we always end up with " yeah sure we will talk about it later" and i can't hear it one more time :/
then just warn him that you'll smash his console if he didn't listened to you. by the way he is very immature.
I will warn him for the last time. By the way he's 25 years old but like you see :/ although i'm younger but i feel that i'm mature more than him sometimes.
yeah you do sounds like more mature than him.
Yeah, no, that's a really really dumb idea actually. Are you really this disinterested in his activities? Maybe try to see why he enjoys it so much?
That doesn't work.
I don't hate video games or something and i used to support him but lately it started to take his time and just want to play more. Those guys who have YouTube channels are obsessed with it more anything else in their life and this is happening here now. Maybe I'm crazy because i'm pregnant but seriously what would you do if you were in my place?
@Moe-333 Well, I wish you good luck then.
No need he doesn't play very much anymore.
I really wouldn't know what to do really, hopefully he realizes himself that he is doing something "wrong" here.
None the less, I wish you good luck with your boyfriend.
Thank you
Only if you're willing to pay to buy him a new one.
The hormones are getting to you. Don't smash his stuff, that's really immature and a sure way of burning your bridges. You can try other things like not doing anything for him (like cooking), or staying at a friend's house, until he talks to you.
you break them dont be surprised if he knocked your dumbass out
There is no excuse for destroying his property. That would just make you look psychotic. If his video game playing is really that much of a problem for you and he refuses to talk about it with you then all you can do is break up with him and move on.
Nope, that shit is expensive. It sounds like your pregnancy hormones are off the chart.
Write down how you feel in a letter then give it to him.
I dont think that will get you any where but in trouble with the law. I am with every one else here, if he doesn't want to change, then leave, if you dont want to leave seek counseling
Or just leave him so you don't have to pay for it?
There's a certain age where you stop playing video games and life catches up to you.
Switch the power off in the fuse box. No need to destroy anything.
I'm just angry most of the time :/
do you have a hobby or anything you do on your own?
and do you two live together
Yes I've doing a lot of things alone lately because he's busy and yes we live together.
set aside time for you two everyday... agree on it and sign a contract..
Between his job and video games and my college we rarely sit together but i will try it one more time :(
HULK SMASH!
Thats not right.. How would you like it if he smashed your phone?
This is different! :/
Find another way to take out your frustrations
I almost did smash it. Instead I just kept turning it off. He got pissed lol. Guess who doesn't play anymore. It's now really only used for Netflix.
Did it really work?
Yeah but if you aren't sure do a trial run. While he's playing "accidentally" shut it off while dusting or something. If he freaks too nad you'll know its a bad idea but he won't blame you too long because it was an "accident". And for all the people who are thinking "but he'll lose his progress.." or whatever. Just stop. It's a videogame.
That's pure evil. O. O Making him get rid of games and only allowed to watch boring Netflix, I pity him some.
Don't smash anything, just leave. If you smash his stuff you'll most likely have to pay for it, you'd be doing yourself a major disservice and it will only make things worse.
If you wanted it gone for a bit so you can talk, it may be better to hide it instead. Smashing it is a bad idea and you will end up regretting that you did it. If you hide it you get the same effect that he can't use it but you can still give it back once you have talked to him