So what will it be girls?
Have a guy to protect you? or handle yourself?
Guys, what do you think girls should do?
you don't have to go as extreme as this girl but she's pretty bad ass
- i want my man protecting me25% (18)25% (6)25% (24)Vote
- i rather depend on myself, my man is a bonus64% (47)17% (4)53% (51)Vote
- other.. really? lol8% (6)17% (4)10% (10)Vote
- i think this is stupid (explain)3% (2)21% (5)7% (7)Vote
- im just gonna say violence is never good. (NOT THE FUCKING POINT) obviously, but okay.0% (0)20% (5)5% (5)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
Hmm... I would like to say that I can handle myself, but at present my body is in no way capable of defending itself. Not that I don't want to participate in contact sports (e. g. martial arts) that would teach me some self defense; I used to through out elementary, middle school and high school play football, baseball, basketball, sometimes karate, and muay thai, but I stopped since then. It is because I have a severe case of scoliosis that all the doctors I've seen, since I was in middle school, recommend/ed surgery. I never pushed through with it though. I was advised by my doctors to avoid contact and extreme sports as they put unnecessary strain and pressure on my back, which will make my spine more vulnerable. Atm, I can't even run or lift heavy objects without feeling great strain and pain from my back :(. I was also advised by my physician to avoid lifting anything heavy :(. So, if ever I'm in that position, it would be advantageous for both of us if whoever I'm with can handle dangerous situations. Idealistically, I'd prefer that we stay away from areas where situations like that can happen.1
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Most Helpful Guy
From my experience if a women has grown up in a safe place she just does not think about needing protection in public places. I was out with a few of my female friends and we walked around our local mall. Being the only guy there and having been jumped by a high moron and robbed at knife point. I asked them if they had anything just in case. They jokingly said no and that was what I was for. If we got in trouble they would just have me distract the guy while they ran. and like they could run away in their flipflops or run for any great distance. Anyways while I know that they were joking I was serious about it and worry about it also when they were not. This happened on a few occasions before I just went and bought my own tazer just encase. While I would without a doubt protect them I also would rather not die because they never remembered to take the perper spray they their mother gave them.1