When do you feel more lonely?

When you're alone, or when you're in a group? Or do you just never feel lonely?

  • Alone
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  • In a group
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  • I never feel lonely
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I steely feel lonely. I haven't felt lonely in such a long time, I'm not sure when I feel the loneliest.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • In a group when I'm put for my birthday and my buddy invites both of his ex girlfriends, one of them single the other in a relationship, and the one who is taken I bond with instantaneously and keep thinking to myself "why? Why does she have to be taken?"

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What Girls Said 14

  • I feel lonely easily and it's not triggered by whether I'm in a group or not. It can hit me at any point whether I'm alone or with someone. But some of my worst times were when I was completely alone.

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    • Is it because you think too much? I don't feel lonely in general, but sometimes it hits me and it's usually when I think too much.

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    • Oh, I see. I hope you manage to control that :)

    • Thank you :D

  • I typically feel more lonely when I'm alone. If I'm with people, it's usually with people I get along with and can talk to. If I don't know anyone, though, then I just feel awkward and maybe lonely, so I'll try to detract myself from group.

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  • I don't really feel lonely.. I can have a good time either way.. like I can be life of a party.. or a sort of a happy calm monk when I am alone.. no wait,.. I can party when I am alone as well.. party in my panties.. :D

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  • Alone usually.
    I can feel lonely in a group if I'm not friends with any of them. But if im with friends, I don't feel lonely in a group.

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  • When I'm in a group of people I don't like.

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  • In a group when they just keep ignoring your ideas and only focusing on themselves.

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  • when i'm in a group, not involved in the conversation and just sitting there with a stale smile wishing i could be at home..

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    • I agree... This happened to me a lot. Actually there is just my buddies with whom as a group i really feel involved. Other than that, group activites with different people are kinda meh

  • Definitely when I'm in a group. (I get drained after being in a group for a while)

    But when I am by myself, thats what I truly call home. When I am my happiest :))

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    • Do you think it happens when you're in a group because you're not with people that actually fit you?

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    • Hmmm.. yeah. I don't understand lol XD
      But its all good.
      Bc bad thoughts, mostly about loneliness, come around when I am about to fall asleep. It bever cones when I have happy thoughts like you

    • Never comes*** opps

  • When I'm totally alone. It's unsettling and I'd much rather be out and about strangers then sit somewhere by myself

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  • don't feel lonely alone or in a group

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  • When I can't blend in a group.

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  • I feel lonely all the time but being in a group is worse

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  • I feel lonely when I'm in a group and I feel fine when I'm by myself

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  • When i'm alone... no ones around you and you just feel more lonely...

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What Guys Said 9

  • I feel alone virtually all the time. For me, it's not about finding way to not be alone, but about tolerating and coping with it.

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  • The only times I feel lonely is when I initially move to a new city, which hopefully won't be happening for a long time. And after a breakup or something

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  • usually on Sunday when I'm not doing anything and Monday is drawing near

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  • I actually never feel lonely, because I always have my thoughts with me.

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  • I have battled insecurity in the passed and now I am confident enough in myself to really be a part of a group, bit also to enjoy my own company.

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    • So in the past, did you feel more lonely alone or in a group? Or both.

    • A mix of both to be honest, but unrealised that it was irrational to feel the way I did, to the extremes that I did.

  • both can be the case, but more when I'm alone

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  • I can't remember the last time I really felt lonely.

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  • I dont feel alone anymore but as I did it was both. When I was alone and when I was in a group

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  • At school lol

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